what I’ve learned so far

Hannah started school last week. It’s been a bit of an adjustment: new schedule, new subjects, new and creative ways to procrastinate (speaking for both of us here). She’s been homeschooled all of her life, but there are still things that I am discovering as each new school year rolls around.

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{1} Get to bed early. Getting to bed early means that you can wake up early, make your coffee early and drink it very slowly. Some people really do hit the ground with their brains running. You are not one of those people.

{2} Always have a dictionary on-hand. Always. You never know what new or unusual word you’re going to be called on to define.

{3} For that matter, keep yourself apprised of any and all new developments in the field of technology, biology, physics, and geopolitics. Last week’s Geography lesson turned into a discussion of peak oil and alternative energy, and you have to admit that you were more than a little in over your head.

{4} Time spent playing with cats can be quantified as animal behavioral sciences, and observing the goldfish is a part of her Marine Biology curriculum. Definitely.

{5} Pop cultural references make great teaching tools. “Remember when Mulder went to Antarctica to rescue Scully from the alien space ship? Those numbers he had on that piece of paper were coordinates – degrees of latitude and longitude – so that he could use a GPS to pinpoint the exact location.”

{6} Doesn’t matter if you’re 6, 16 or almost 26…you will melt down when you are hungry. Breakfast is important, snacks equally so (and does next year’s culinary class mean she’ll be the one cooking lunch every day?)

{7} Learning together can be fun. And funny. Don’t ever take for granted those times when you’re laughing to tears over some silly mispronunciation or misunderstanding. Like it or not, this is the stuff she’ll really remember.

{8} When necessary, don’t hesitate to just put the books aside and TALK. Japanese can wait. Those moments can’t.

so here we are

11th grade.

Today we discussed the moon, the definition of “dross”, and whether or not we may be looking at the world upside down. We talked about photography. I now know how to say “big house” in Japanese.

Not bad for our second day.

because it’s been awhile since I did an *actual* update

1) I photographed my first wedding two weeks ago (May 15). It was challenging and exciting and exhausting, but not once was it stressful. I can’t say that I LOVED IT so much that I want to drop everything and do wedding photography. But I did love it, and it was a great experience, and I am very excited to be shooting another wedding in just a few weeks.

If you’re a friend on Facebook, you can see the wedding photos there. If you’re not a Facebook friend…well, why not?

2) In the past two weeks we’ve added 10 new pets to the household. You know how they say that nature abhors a vacuum? The same is true of our household and pets. We can’t ever stay below a half dozen for very long.

The good news is that all of the new animals are fish. Because when I get into something, I really get into it.

Tropical Tank (1-African Butterfly Fish, 5-Corydoras Catfish):

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Goldfish Tank (55 gallons, 4 goldfish*):

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*Schultzy will be joining them after their quarantine is over

3) Hannah finished 10th grade this past week. She had a great year and we’re both excited for 11th grade, but we’re also going to enjoy this looong deserved summer break.

4) My cousin Michelle will be here in three days! It’s weird for me to even type out her given name: to us, she’s just “Mickey”. Awesome, funny, witty, beautiful Mickey. She was here two years ago and featured prominently in a day in my life. We’re all really excited to see her again.

Looking back at that post, I realize that a lot of things have changed in two years. Papa isn’t here anymore. Neither is Rex. Dad has facial hair (and Stephen has even more of it), and Hannah’s let her hair go back to its natural curliness. My dreads are two years older now. Kayla has been MARRIED for almost a year. We saw the X-files movie (it wasn’t so great) and I can’t believe I actually forgot about paying over $4/gallon for gas.

Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes.

On the other hand, I am currently at work, drinking soda, and watching Netflix. Some things remain the same.

5) It has been an absolutely gorgeous late spring/early summer here in Maine. The weather is warm, the flowers are blooming, and the birds are busy doing whatever it is that birds do. Our backyard smells like a florist’s shop and sounds like an aviary. I walk outside and can’t believe how fortunate we are – I love living in the country!

If

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream – and not make dreams your master;
If you can think – and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build ‘em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on”;

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings – nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run -
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And – which is more – you’ll be a Man my son!

- Rudyard Kipling